I believe that dining at upscale establishments is a waste of money. Is it uncommon?

During the course of my doctoral studies, I traveled a lot. Stayed in numerous hostels where I cooked for myself. In the last few years I have traveled a great deal and in all that time I have learned so much about food, tasted a lot of it, cooked and baked like mad person and tried to be excellent in both research work and cooking.

My aim has always been to get better and keep learning. Over the years, I’ve transitioned from preparing meals in my adorable kitchen at home for myself and friends to eating in upscale eateries.

We must eat to stay alive.

It’s true that there is food on our planet to feed and sustain both humans and other animals. It should satiate my taste receptors and fulfill a physiological demand for me. But what occurred was that throughout these years, we elevated food to a whole new level, and it has been quite difficult to reverse that trend.

Gourmet food is not bad.

Don’t misread me. I don’t despise fancy food. This is not an act of defiance against its conception or reality. Food and how we use it have evolved along with human evolution. A gourmet meal requires skill. Despite my admiration for this type of art and its makers because it is stunning and imaginative, I can’t help but feel that food is also gradually losing its function and significance along the road.

I occasionally worked late while conducting research and was unable to prepare meals for myself. I visited many inexpensive eateries in addition to upscale establishments where you could eat contemporary food.

When food became a business opportunity, every restaurant owner strove to continue coming up with insane and innovative new ways to attract consumers. Food has undergone so many changes that sometimes it is no longer recognizable.

For instance, as a lover of dosa, I would prefer to eat a plain dosa with green chutney and potato curry, but nowadays, high-end restaurants sell neer dosa (rice crepes) for 150 Rs., so is it worthwhile to try?

Only one of the numerous factors that influence the pricing of pricey restaurants is the cuisine. You might be able to appreciate the furnishings, how lovely the cuisine looks, how luxurious and comfortable the seating is, etc.

:round_pushpin: The Red Ginger

:round_pushpin: Carlito’s By The sea

Do I believe that upscale dining is overrated?

Depends, but occasionally, unquestionably yes

Yes, it’s wonderful to eat in a fine restaurant while someone else prepares the meal and cleans up after you. But not when you must pay a mortgage in order to get just three tiny (as possible) dosa with prawn curry.

Yes, you can call me a pagan, but I prefer hot, filling cuisine. Don’t anticipate having an English-language conversation with me while I’m eating. Unless your discussions make me incredibly wealthy, that is.

I can assure you that I will appreciate my South Indian pulao, which costs 25 rupees, far more than you will enjoy your gourmet dinner every day of the week. I’ve dined in establishments where a South Indian dosa was 200Rs. In all honesty, the food was not much better than a decent plate of biryani that could have easily served three people for a smaller price.

Sometimes, reasonably priced bistros or pubs may serve up some genuinely delectable dishes made with super-fresh ingredients. Although they will have the standard menu, I like to eat from it when I’m extremely hungry and trying to satiate my taste senses.

I have nothing against upscale restaurants or the people who enjoy them, but I have had experiences where I once placed an order for food from the Comida DoubleTree by Hilton Goa and posted a review on Swiggy saying the food was bad. They immediately reacted to that review, apologizing for the food and promising that it wouldn’t happen again in the future. And I even have had experience where a tiny, less well-known however upscale restaurant chef/owner treated me unfairly based on appearance and won’t accept a simple review of their food before barring me from returning, while many small restaurants appreciate the feedback and work to improve.

I don’t want to pay for ambiance or for a superior waiter to act like I am an honored guest, to put it bluntly. Just bring out something delectable so I can remember it for the next time I desire a tasty dinner. Therefore, I consider a restaurant that is excessively pretentious to be a warning that the food is probably not all that wonderful. Yes, there are exceptions, but only in cases where a restaurant regularly has months-long waiting lines.

Despite the fact that I lack formal training as a chef and only started to cook out of need, all of my best meals have been prepared at home. I eat it hot since that is when it tastes the finest because I am not supposed to eat with politeness or etiquette.

:round_pushpin: Mickey’s Colva

A restaurant serving food from many different cuisines at a low cost. My favorite dining establishment in Goa is this one.

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Hi @user_not_found this is an interesting point of view, but if there is a dish I have never tried, I never look at the price I pay and I just want to try it.:smiling_face:

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@Gezendunyali Everyone may have their own preferences when it comes to food, but because I am a calculative person, if a meal I have never eaten would be cheaper to make at home than in a restaurant, I would undoubtedly choose the first option. :smiling_face: And even a modest restaurant in Goa, where I am from, might pleasantly surprise you with its menu.

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Its delicius, great foods, i liked it

This is a solid read and I can certainly appreciate your perspective @user_not_found You’ve made many valid points to solidify your opinions.

As a child growing up, my family rarely went out to dinner. We had a very large garden and preserved food for year round use and there wasn’t much money for dining out, let alone anywhere upscale. So, once I was introduced to dining out I was excited to sample different cuisines and fares. While my palette grew more diverse, I learned that the best meals are ALWAYS made at home!

Nowadays, I save my dining out for new experiences and old favorites. Indulging in my favorite deep dish pizza that I could never replicate at home. A lovely seafood dinner on the beach. A Greek restaurant with belly dancers and fresh hummus made table side. Birria tacos or smoked chicken wings. The dishes or experiences that are more enjoyable when someone else does the work and leaves me to simply enjoy.

But, if I’m eating to eat - Yes, home is the best place and restaurants are simply to pricey for the portions. I like how you said your goal is to get better and keep learning. I must agree! I’ve learned a great deal and have grown considerably in my culinary skills simply from venturing out and tasting new dishes. I can now make those gourmet dishes in my own kitchen and have them taste exactly how I like (also for a fraction of the cost!)

I’ve enjoyed reading your most recent posts and look forward to more. Have a great weekend :grin:

@Mikeinthefalls Thank you for providing such a detailed point of view. It has helped me to understand where I went wrong when writing an article and how I should consider other people’s perspectives as well.

Hi @user_not_found very unique topic about food. Your post is undoubtedly superb with your views. I agree with you but when it comes to a totally new dish I would surely try despite of cost and depends on that experience I would decide next time. Your post and write up is wonderful. Your many posts are very interesting. I would love to read all gradually. Thanks for sharing such a tempting photos here :yum: