Wedding Guest.

In Nigerian weddings, marriage is very important in Igbo (Ibo) culture and the traditional rites attached to the union arent taken lightly by families involved.
Traditional marriages of these people from the south-east part of Nigeria are deemed very festive, colorful and are divided into four main parts.

Unfortunately, tradition doesn’t recognize the modern kind of proposal where the man gets down on one knee and proposes to his girlfriend
Although proposal is an important aspect of courtship. It can be done before the marriage rites.

Today I was invited to a wedding as a Wedding Guest.

Yes that is me, ready for the wedding.

Igbo wedding are very beautiful with loud music and lots of food to eat. I came with an empty belly to this my friend wedding @Ant_Bad_Yogi @Nyainurjanah .

picture of so many invited guests.

. The wedding is something one can not forget in a hurry as there is a lot to eat and drink.

combination of fried and jellof rice all in one plate.

You know like my friend @Ant_Bad_Yogi some people here in Nigeria want to eat all delicacies all in one, so they prefer to eat both jellof and fried rice.

Here I met some cool friends and local guide.

local guide chinny and Austin .

We had lots of drinks and foods. I enjoyed myself as the newly married couples received numerous gifts and presents from me and other guests.

bottles of alcoholic and non alcoholic drinks and wine, water.

It was an amazing outing today

I want to use this opportunity to ask my friend Paul @To_paul @Anonymous @Ant_Bad_Yogi @SabbirShawon @Nyainurjanah @Stella2 @OlgaKlimchik How wedding is celebrated in your locality

Here is the link of theWedding Guest video .feel free to watch it.

Thank you all, I am free to reply any question.

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@Austinelewex

I’m very glad you invited me to watch this post. I’m so glad you went out to the wedding. Thank you.

We have traditions in Russia, but we don’t have to follow them. For example, there is a tradition of doing a great competition for the groom. He has to go to the bride through the other of the people. Guests can ask him questions about the size of the shoes, the height of the bride, the date of birth of his mother-in-law. If he doesn’t answer the question he pays the money in the piggy bank. Different very different contests. Then everyone goes to the building where they sign the documents. Then walk and cafes. We have traditions in Russia, but we don’t have to follow them. For example, there is a tradition of doing a great competition for the groom. He has to go to the bride through the other of the people. Guests can ask him questions about the size of the shoes, the height of the bride, the date of birth of his mother-in-law. If he doesn’t answer the question he pays the money in the piggy bank. Different very different contests. Then everyone goes to the building where they sign the documents. Then walk and cafes. There is a lot of food and lots of competitions in the cafe. We have traditions in Russia, but we don’t have to follow them. For example, there is a tradition of doing a great competition for the groom. He has to go to the bride through the other of the people. Guests can ask him questions about the size of the shoes, the height of the bride, the date of birth of his mother-in-law. If he doesn’t answer the question he pays the money in the piggy bank. Different very different contests. Then everyone goes to the building where they sign the documents. Then walk and cafes. There is a lot of food and lots of competitions in the cafe. However, many peopleWe have traditions in Russia, but we don’t have to follow them. For example, there is a tradition of doing a great competition for the groom. He has to go to the bride through the other of the people. Guests can ask him questions about the size of the shoes, the height of the bride, the date of birth of his mother-in-law. If he doesn’t answer the question he pays the money in the piggy bank. Different very different contests. Then everyone goes to the building where they sign the documents. Then walk and cafes. There is a lot of food and lots of competitions in the cafe.

However, many note differently. Some simply sign documents and go to rest in another country. Journey. Others collect cafes without competitions and a large feast., others celebrate with relatives at home or do not celebrate.

But in most cases we have a year or two of preparation spree for the wedding. Usually big weddings. Weddings also have a tradition of celebrating the second day

On the second day go to have fun or something. Or just at home. Thank you

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@Austinelewex

First read your post sometimes I should rotate my phone for saw few picture 555 wk wk wk .

Second I think lazy for this topic in reality why because everybody always asking to me "when you get married nyai ? " Lol ,I know this general questions but if too much face with serious gesture sometimes make me annoying wkwk

Here some wedding ceremony in Indonesia

general dress wedding costume

my brothers wedding traditional Java costume

What about you guys

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Really great. That is so lovely @user_not_found . It is a sad thing that culture and traditions are depreciating greatly.

Here in Nigeria, we do Christian wedding but if you don’t do the traditional part, the bride would think that something is missing on her part. And she would try as much as possible to pressure you.

The paper work are done either in the church or in court.

But tradition marriage is paramount even if you do not want to do a ceremony for it.

Thank you dear @user_not_found for sharing your experiences with us on connect.

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Hi dear @Nyainurjanah

The wedding custome looks beautiful. wk wk wk.

I couldn’t get to upload the picture of the couple because the wedding was crowded.

But here is the video of the couples dancing Couples dancing

Feel free to watch it. But they were not wearing traditional attire.

This is how our traditional attire looks

Igbo marriage traditional attire.

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@Austinelewex

There is still a tradition of wearing rings on the right hand. Ring finger.
These rings are very expensive, they are made of diamonds, so we did not buy, but the photo remained.

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Hahahaha @user_not_found . That is so funny. If I were the seller, I would make you both buy it. Hahahaha

Please don’t mind me.

Anyways we also wear ring on the left hand on the finger nearest to the smallest finger. :blush:

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@Austinelewex , if not for the respect of my in-laws, i would have shown you the long list of items and things to provide for my in-laws. Marriage rites and customs can make one sick and frustrating…but my God conquard them for me

MrBest dancing with his wife after conquering his in-laws. Behind is MrBest’s Best-man and his two brothers in solidarity Uniform.

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Hello Bro @MrBest

"He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD".

I am so happy you did all the rites and got married the proper way.

I wished I had known you then. Probably you would have invited me.

Thank you @MrBest for sharing your experiences with us on connect.

Jisie ike brother.

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Great feed @Austinelewex I was at the wedding too and can affirm to all you have said. I really enjoyed the delicacies served at the event, most especially the Fried Rice and chicken :grinning: . What are your remarks on the food?? Because Judging from your previous write ups on Local Nigerian Delicacies, it’s evident you’re good with Traditional recipe

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Hello @Chiazodo .

Their food was great. I didn’t eat much though. 555 @Ant_Bad_Yogi .

I enjoyed especially the drinks both alcoholic beverages and non alcoholic drinks.

The chef did great. :grin:

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So I managed to put Austin in the right position
now follow the questions.
1.What computing power did I use? @user_not_found
2.Is any monitor in the normal working position? @Austinelewex
3.What is the best device? @C_T
4. Is the picture from Austin’s wedding? @Ant_Bad_Yogi
5. Is the picture educational? @Nyainurjanah

Thank you very much

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Hi @Nyainurjanah I rotated the PC monitor

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@To_paul

Hahahaha

Nice

I answer the question. An average Asus computer for office tasks is no more. And there may be a powerful computer under the table, but it is not in the photo. Great photo.

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Hahahahah @To_paul . I tried as much as possible to rotate my photo. But all to no avail.

Thanks friend.

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I can’t stop laughing out loud @To_paul . I am too lazy to tag a connect moderator for help.

I decided to leave the photo like that. At least it is not the main information. Hahahahaha

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hahaha @To_paul same to u dear brother i also

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awesome man when will attend your own wedding haha @Austinelewex
how was the food of this wedding whats the menu?

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Hello @SabbirShawon

If you offer me invitation surly, I will come.

The menu was numerous.

I will go by the usual name we called it in South East Nigeria :

  1. Fried Rice
  2. Jellof Rice
  3. White Rice
  4. Soup and Garri
  5. Abacha
  6. Meat
  7. Fish
  8. Egg sauce
  9. Moi Moi

There was no bbq @SabbirShawon :wink: :joy: :rofl: :joy:

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alwasys welcome brother @Austinelewex
Advanced invitation in my marriage.
Item was so delicious man wanna try it hahaha
Jelof rice, moi moi and few items are new for me .

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