Table for one: Solo dining in Kolymvari- Crete, Greece

Hello friends,

Do you love dining solo? Have you ever tried it? How about having your dinner beside the Mediterranean sea in Greece alone? Does that sound crazy?

Solo dining is very common in Japanese culture (which I have experienced) (our Japan LGs can comment), but usually a rare event in India. However, it is being normalized due to solo travelling trends over the past few years. Perhaps it’s the unique feeling and experiences that come with solo dining that is making it a rising trend. Throwing yourself into the situation of being alone, in public, takes your mind into a different dimension. More than a strange act it has become a form of self-care nowadays.

Back in 2015 when I started my international solo travel, my very first country to visit was Greece! I stayed at Kolymbari, Chania, a much more distant part of Crete Island! While Islands like Santorini are commonly visited, the Creta remains unexplored due to multiple reasons including expensive transportation in certain areas.

Almost every evening during my stay I chose to walk along the seashore and have my dinner at Hotel Plaza Paradise which had a sea view.

It is right there on the harbour and has two sitting areas- one is the restaurant itself while the other one is an outside arrangement across the street (just near the seashore). You will find almost all locations in Crete having such sitting arrangements! After all the transparent aqua blue water and the sound of waves is what attracts the crowd here (other than the food of course)!

I remember how delicious the preparation was at hotel Plaza. On the menu card, they have multiple options in seafood, grilled/. barbeque vegetables etc. But they try to customize your order if you ask for it. I have tried a variety of starters here including fried mushrooms, fried zucchini, broccoli Patties and my personal favourite was fried capsicum! The texture of these fried vegetables was just perfect and a treat to my taste buds! The barbecued vegetables tasted delicious too! The restaurant has a variety of fresh seafood preparations like BBQ sardines, kalamiri, octopus etc.

On one of the evenings, I was served a complimentary chocolate crepe which was too delicious (I was not very much of a photo freak back then and missed out on multiple good captures on this trip).

I should have mentioned it at the start, I never missed my evening coffee at Plaza Paradise! Just imagining that I am sitting right next to the Mediterranean sea on a small island was a great feeling! It is said that it is impossible to meet new friends if you travel solo! And I can not agree more. I could hardly understand Greek, but the efforts that the restaurant owner took to communicate were really appreciable.

Having experienced a few solo dining experiences, my perspectives have shifted over time. It offers the strength to avoid profane rabble, external judgment and an ability to observe. You understand how self-absorbed people are, too concerned about themselves to be looking at you.

Certain dining establishments offer to ease you into the solo experience less awkwardly and uncomfortably and for me, Plaza Paradise was one of such experiences.

I would surely love to go back and grab a Greek coffee here!

Have you ever tried solo dining on purpose? How was your experience? Which one is your favourite view? Do comment on your experiences!

Keep eating and stay hydrated this summer!

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Wonderful @Smita_Patil

You have reminded me of My visit to Greece ,

So many memory attached to that true its beautiful place.

hanks for sharing

Regards

Anil

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Hello, friend @Smita_Patil

Solo-Dining sounds unique… unable to comment as I’m totally new to the concept.

Ofcourse, for my corporate, I have travelled internationally many times…

But most of the time, except for the breakfast, dining ended up with others around the table. (Many a time a quick breakfast used to be part of rushing life, especially when we are on the move)

My last visit to Greece was more than a decade ago…

I’m sure your post attractive with beautiful pictures…

Greetings…

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It is so so beautiful @Anil6969 and if someone is beach person then it’s a lottery for them. Crystal clear water and lonely beaches! Scenic is just a plain word for this beauty!

I am glad that you could remember your visit after this post.

Thank you for encouragement and your swift response!

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नमस्कार…

** @Smita_Patil **

अगदिच वेगळं आहे, जे मला कधी ऐकून हि माहिती नाही, तु आमच्या सोबत शेअर केल्याबद्दल धन्यवाद…

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Hello @TravellerG !

I am glad to introduce this concept. Corporate can be unpredictable, I have experienced dead silence at times and too much noise otherwise on my official visits in India and outside. But being solo itself is a skill we should develop for sure.

Greece is beautiful and unique country, I am happy to know that you have witnessed it.

I prefer going solo even in McDonald’s at times for I believe in peace of mind and “Me” Time.

You must try it sometime on purpose, it is really a small adventure in itself in beginning.

Such a thoughtful conversation @TravellerG . Thank you :slightly_smiling_face:

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धन्यवाद @Shrut19 . या पोस्ट मध्ये. मी काहीतरी वेगळे आणू शकलो याचा मला आनंद आहे.

तुमच्या प्रतिसादाबद्दल खूप खूप धन्यवाद.

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@Smita_Patil , I know you’re a bonafide back-packer :grinning: and loved travelling solo and have many stories to tell, this one is right up there, waiting many more to read!!

Cheers!

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I remember you mentioning in one of the comments to write about my backpacking experiences @AjitThite and I was thinking of that while writing this post :slightly_smiling_face:

Many many thanks for encouragement and support.

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Wowww… @Smita_Patil it is great write up… You are great writer…! Very well written and presented. Very unique topic. Enjoyed reading. Thanks for sharing it here.

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As a solo traveler, I have always enjoyed solo breakfast and meals. It is a truly unique experience that not everyone can enjoy.

Excellent photos from Greece and glad to know that the hotel staff took the efforts to ease the communication.

My experience in Germany was not so pleasant since almost no one bothers to communicate unless German is used. So I always ended up finding an Indian restaurants out there.

Overall, the post and experience are unique and thoroughly enjoyable @Smita_Patil

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Γειά σου @Smita_Patil διάβασα με ενδιαφέρον για το ταξίδι σου στην Ελλάδα, και ως Ελληνίδα συγκινήθηκα! Όμορφος ο τρόπος που γράφεις και πολύ ωραίες οι φωτογραφίες σου.

Συνήθως ταξιδεύω και εγώ μόνη μου, στις ευρωπαϊκές χώρες, και βέβαια πολύ απλά και εύκολα γευματίζω μόνη.

Την επόμενη φορά που θα έρθεις στην Ελλάδα είσαι καλεσμένη μου.

Λεζάντα: τηγανητό καλαμάρι.

Λεζάντα. Ολόκληρο τηγανητό ψάρι.

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Many thanks @Rohan10 for your response. I am glad you liked this quick read on one of my solo dining experience :slightly_smiling_face:

Very true @TusharSuradkar . Being solo is not something that everyone enjoys. Many thanks for sharing your experience in Germany. I do have mixed experience from Germany and in my opinion, only the more distant parts are much more friendly in any country.

Before I visit any place, I learn the local terms with their accent just to ease the communication and sometimes it works :sweat_smile:

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Ουάου! η απάντησή σου μου έφτιαξε τη μέρα @Stella2 . Σας ευχαριστώ πολύ για την τόσο γλυκιά χειρονομία της πρόσκλησής σας. Σίγουρα θα το έχω υπόψη μου. είναι τόσο γλυκό εκ μέρους σου. Έχω ταξιδέψει πολύ στην Ευρώπη και η Ελλάδα ήταν η χώρα των ονείρων μου για να πάω! σας ευχαριστούμε που μοιράζεστε τις υπέροχες φωτογραφίες!

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Have you gone to MYKONOOS @Smita_Patil ,

Plan out you will love the water clarity free from pollution i spent 5 days their night life is awesome.

Have fun keep exploring the world.

Born Voyage

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I like it most of the time. It feels more peaceful but on the other side of the sea. Thanks for sharing​:smiling_face: :+1:t2: @Smita_Patil

@Smita_Patil

Wow awesome, solo dining in Kolymva great that to in Greece. I have not went for dining but recently travel to delhi solo that to after long years not travel & since 2 years not move out too much,for 1st time enjoyed a lot kids couldn’t believe unless they saw my photo .

Thanks for sharing your beautiful experience & photos.

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So glad to know your post covid travel to Delhi @RosyKohli . Really it feels different after so long to go anywhere. The mask factor has made a much more difference in routines of all.

Hope you enjoyed a lot!