Motherhood 4.0 - "My Local Guides Journey" that means a world to me

“Urip Iku Urup”

Its a Javanese old proverbs means:

“We lived to spread lights of kindness to others”

Me and my husband are entrepreneurs, it has began long before we have our kids. One day, a Local Guides came to buy things from our store and asked for permission to add my store on Google Maps. My husband easily said yes and the Local Guides instantly took pictures of my store. Less than five minutes, our store are listed on Google Maps. My husband asked him about what is LG program and he explained that its a voluntary job for Google Maps like adding places, editing maps, and more. It is not paid but Google sometimes send gifts or discount voucher to the members who gives constant contributions.

My husband turned to me and said,

“You wanna join? I think you’ll like to do stuffs like that, its nothing to lose and could give you some extra discounts”

Me while stroking my pregnant belly (I was in second trimester with my second son) just replied,

“Maybe some other time, we are too busy with the business and our second baby are coming. Knowing that our store got listed on Google Maps, its a good thing for today”

The Local Guides said goodbye and we said thank you to him.

End of story.

Years passed by and having two kids in the family has made me becoming a full time mother juggling with everyday domestic jobs. Just named it: cooking, feeding, bath the kids, cleaning the house, walk my son to school and everything that a mother do.

On September 2019, I remember, it was midnight and my kids were asleep, I was doing my so called “me time” surfing on the internet. I was casually browsing and found some blogs written by Local Guides from Indonesia who had been invited to attend Connect Live in San Francisco, California. I stumbled and instantly remembered that Local Guide who add my store on Google Maps! Maybe he is one of the attendees! But unfortunately I forgot how he looked like.

Moving backwards, I gained much impacts since my store was listed on Google Maps. People came to us based on reviews, they easily find our location and even, this is a real testimony, one day one customer called the local operator asking what is the best sore in Lebak Bulus area, the operator mention our store name and that customer showed up afterwards!

That one act of kindness from a Local Guides has given me a strong determination. Thinking after all that benefits I got, why not to pay it forward? It is payback time for me to help and elevate other local small businesses. The next morning I signed up being a Local Guides and told my husband about it. He was nothing but supportive. I’m blessed.

So, I began doing my research started from my neighborhood. I add small businesses, writing the most honest reviews and uploading photos I’d taken in order to give a comprehensive understanding of a place. I always thought:

“what are the important informations do I expect from a place I’m about to?”

So my basic reviews included some of this below:

  • Is this place child friendly?
  • Does it provide high chair for babies?
  • Does it provide Nursery/Family/Parents Room?
  • Does it has clean restrooms?
  • Does it has parking space?
  • What if I forgot to bring my wallet? Do they accept virtual wallet?

After that I will add my personal reviews about the place, like how the food taste like, the staffs are helpful or not, is the park has kids activity corner, and many more.

The next thing I’d like to do is Edit Places. For me, it is just like organizing my kids toys to the right boxes. Clean the maps just like the way I clean my house. Every right stuffs must go into the right places. I just lose my mind whenever I see a map marker(a place/ATM/offices/restaurants) literally placed on roads! Recently today I learned that the number of my reviews are as much as I edit places, 50:50 in comparison.

You see, here in Indonesia, its very easy to open up a businesses, especially (small scale) culinary, by that I mean hawker. You can cook pretty good, you have the money, then you’re good to go. At first, new entrepreneurs are excited promoting what they are selling. Listed it on Google Maps, spreading the news through social media or maybe paid partnership with an influencer. But, by the time goes by if its not progressing just the way they hope for, they’ll just easily closed it. Leaving their mark on Google Maps abandoned, not giving an extra effort to declare its closed. This has caused our Maps are loaded with false informations and reduce its reliability. Of course we do not want that. I gained my courage by creating a post about this on Idea Exchange section

https://www.localguidesconnect.com/t5/Idea-Exchange/I-m-suggesting-adding-quot-P-quot-and-quot-T-quot-beside-the/idi-p/2271071

Early days becoming a mother I struggled coping with a transition from working women to a stayed at home mom. Not to mention the postpartum depressions. That’s another story. Feeling not productive haunted me every single day. I humbly apologize to any mothers who are reading this post, its not the raising kids nor the marriage parts I’m talking about. As a human, we are naturally designed reaching for accomplishments. Having pride in doing certain works and the urged of gaining self esteem and self actualization. Back then, I used to work, earning income and closed hard negotiations, but now I’m not. So, what am I going to do?

Contributing as a Local Guides has been a “self-healing” tools for me. Knowing that I had listed small businesses on Google Maps to be recognized has been a non awarding achievements. I wish I could give good examples to my children. Google Maps is a platform that actually made me a better person both in the way of thinking and reacting. It empowers specifically mothers like me, that’s why I chose Motherhood 4.0 as the title of my application post.

Moreover, I love involved on Connect. I realize that on Connect, people motivated each other, give compliments, encourage others to be a better person and having discussions open-mindedly. It is reflected by the Connect Moderators, I adore how they maintain Local Guide Connect in line with Google Maps purposes: helping people. Words of encouragement are way much better and that’s what we need in our world today.

Act of kindness

Pay it forward

Self-healing

That are what Local Guides program means to me.

Thank you Google, I am proud to be a Local Guides.

See you in Connect Live 2020

Love

Rita

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Hi @Ritamega

Glad as you are the great asset for the community, thanks.

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Thank you for your kind words @rizbab28 and so do you :slightly_smiling_face:

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*Hi @Ritamega *

Commendable gratitude, thanks.

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hi @Ritamega

Wooowww… well written post!

glad to have you in our community, all contribution based on kindness…

Good Luck on your application CL

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Thank you @Ddimitra

I have so much things to learn from you and our other Local Guides Indonesia, tagging @Nyainurjanah and Pak @BudiFXW

I was so inspired by everything you guys have done to our community, providing reliable information on maps and helping lots of small businesses. This act of kindness is what we need in our city today. Stay safe by the way to all of us during this Corona Virus Pandemic. I hope this could end soon. I really want to get out to explore and capture more pictures for Google Maps :slightly_smiling_face:

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Hello @Ritamega

It’s really great honor for tag me and I’m blushing .

Motherhood 4.0 that’s pretty cool as single person ( and one day I’m becoming a mother ,Aminn soon) i really interesting how becoming a good mom and other activities stay exist .

And your passionate show to me very clear , I’m next motherhood 04.00 so please guide me ,local guides @Ritamega

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I’m glad you are excited to Motherhood experience @Nyainurjanah

Believe me, it is a journey that will make you 1000x better as a person. Amin

It is a hard path women has to encounter but I would not trade it with anything else in the world :innocent:

Want to be a role model? Start from your home :kissing_heart:

Seasons changed and so do the world. It change rapidly but a mother’s love will always stays the same.

Your next challenge (which I am also facing today) are raising a family (kids especially) while can still earning income at home. Be creative and don’t forget to always lift a prayer above to give you strength and hope.

Positive side being self isolated at home has given me much time on Google Maps and Local Guides Connect (I’m healty and not infected by the way :grin: ) I hope this pandemic could end soon because I really want to go outside and explore just like I used to do.

Stay safe my dear :blush:

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@Ritamega

Thank you so much for great advice , I love to hear it based from your true experience .

Let’s pray together the pandemic is over soon . Stay safe for us

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Hi @BudiFXW

Thanks, it’s a very gentle appreciation.

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Hai @Ritamega Thank you for tagging me. Being a Mom of two children and reach level eight with adding photos, adding places and do reviews is awesome. Two thumb for you. Keep up your good works and influencing other Local Guides as you do influencing me.

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Thank you for your appreciation Pak @BudiFXW

I am honored and always fascinated by your humble personality. I’ve been your subscriber on your channel and loved to read your posts and feeds. The fact you have a pure heart helping small businesses really inspired me.

I know for sure Local Guides are a voluntary jobs but has given enormous impacts to our community an our country at large.

Stay safe during this pandemic and I hope this will end soon!

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Quite a long writeup @Ritamega .

Well written with detailed information.

I am glad you shared your experiences as local guide here with us on connect.

I wish you Great success and Goodluck with your application for connect live 2020.

Remain Safe Mbak RITA @Ritamega

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Hi @Austinelewex

Thank you for your appreciation, I know my Connect Post Application is long enough so you need coffee and biscuits while reading it… hahhaha. Just Kidding.

I love to write, I think that is one of my ability, I can open up about me more on writing. In fact if you meet me, I’m kind of introvert person.

I’ve been blessed my Local Guides program (mainly my business) and at that time I just don’t have enough time to contribute, but 2 years later, here I am :blush:

I wish nothing but the best for your application too! I hope this pandemic is over so we all can gather next October! I’m really looking forward for it.

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Hi Mbak RITA,

Yes!, I have managed to finish reading the writeup. This post is so lovely that It will be so bad of me to read alone. :slightly_smiling_face:

Therefore I will tag some local guides to it @OlgaKlimchik @user_not_found @Ale_003 @Avraham_Jurado @MrBest @UchechukwuEnem @meghanajain @katydarhel @SabbirShawn @Ant_Bad_Yogi

My advice to you @Ritamega Is that I know your kids might be too small to leave taking care of them.

But I advise if they are two or more years old, you could start all over again pursuing your dreams by getting a job. And most importantly for self actualization.

However, I have learnt an important Javanese adage “Urip Iku Urup”

Gracias.

Best regards.

Stay safe.

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@Austinelewex Thank you for tagging me to this post. :slightly_smiling_face:

@Ritamega It is nice to read your story how you became a Local Guide and such. I wish you good luck on the application. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Thank you for your humble appreciation @Austinelewex

I am thinking to go back to work actually, since my husband is a little bit overwhelmed with our business. Currently the oldest age 5 and the youngest age 2. I have been looking for options such as: daycare, nanny, ask my mom for help but none of it fits my heart actually. I just hope one or two more years later would be the best time. Finger crossed.

I do believe women should accomplished self actualization, it is one important factor or us being a human. Also a good examples for our next generations. I feel blessed and lucky that I’m able to find Google Local Guides program again. It really is my “self-healing” platform and I can do it at my home while taking care of my family. The time and places needed are flexible and the most important thing that I can help others by doing so.

I believe that your contributions and mine will not go in vain. What you do for the community are great Mas @Austinelewex :grin:

Thank you one again for your support :blush:

It really mean so much to me.

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I wish all the best for you too @Ant_Bad_Yogi

I hope by God’s will we all here can be lucky attendees, meet each other and exchange ideas

Cheers

Rita

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@Ritamega

Thank you for kind words.

Mbak RITA. :slightly_smiling_face:

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@Ritamega I have read your post with a great pleasure, your words are close to me. I like your idea of organising Maps like the children toys :slightly_smiling_face: , I think I feel something similar.

Being a mother you see things in other way, and it’s really helpful. Not every student will pay attention for the babies chair in the cafe :wink: , and it’s normal.

I see your words come from your soul, good luck for you.

Thank you for tagging me, @Austinelewex , it’s really good post.

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