Intimate Competition

7 years ago, my wife and I met, we were in a class at one of the leading universities in Malang. He is the treasurer of the class, while I am just an ordinary person. Until finally we are close and decided to continue the relationship to a more serious level.

In the process, there is always a strong debate and aura of competition between us, ranging from trivial things like what to eat, to hard things like understanding religion, because each of us has a strong character.

Up to things like becoming local guides. She was the first to often take pictures of food and interesting places. Honestly, I’m a little skeptical about why there are people who like to photograph food over and over again, the point of view must be good, and so on. I had thought, it was a waste of time.

However, there are a few moments that change everything.

  1. I was greatly helped by a local guide that reviews a place, so I can more quickly determine which choice of places I will go to and need any preparation when I go there

  2. Many of our friends ask my wife for a photo on the menu and food prices

  3. There are some places like closed/moved still on google maps that can make people lose time because they have traveled there

Then I thought, this could be one of my little ways to help reduce the confusion of people out there.

Eventually, I started, and the scent of competition with my wife grew again. How do we continue to compete to improve the quantity and quality of each review that we make, even though my wife finally rested because she was pregnant? I also continue to try to be consistent in continuing the “struggle” of my wife too until about a year later, and I am very happy to do it.

In the end, indeed I have now passed my wife’s point, but I realize the most important thing is not that, but how our review can be useful for people in need. And the thing that is no less important, though we often argue, we love each other and this is the most beautiful thing I have ever felt.

This is my story, where is your story? Thank you

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Hahahaa… cerita yang menarik, Mas @muhrizak

Inspiratif buat Local Guides yang pengen nyari jodoh. Hahaa

Hi @muhrizak ,

Since this looks like an application post, I will move it to Local Stories board, where all such publications should appear.

For more information on the forum, please check Your guide to Connect. I also recommend that you go through our program rules and help desk to get a better idea of the program and how to participate in it. Why not introduce yourself as well and meet others from the community?

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